I created this exercise for myself, at a time when I felt (mis)-judged by others and noticed the ugly feeling of judgment rising up inside me. By defining what “I am” and what “I am not,” I renewed some inner strength and self-confidence. From that place, it is much easier to see others and the world around me in a positive, compassionate, empathetic way - and release the burden of judgment.
Take a sheet of paper and make two columns. At the top of the left-hand column, write “I AM…” At the top of the right-hand column, write, “I AM NOT…” Fill in the columns with truths about who and what you are vs. what you are not. If someone has made you feel judged in some way that you don’t like, put it in the I AM NOT column. If you have lost sight of some of the uniqueness that makes you, YOU, put that in the I AM column.
These statements will become affirmations. The affirmations will help to keep you on YOUR PATH.